Lessons Learned from Women and Their Treatment of Each Other; as a Bi-Sexual Man

The Dark Games some woman play and some gay men for attention is wild. Here's what I've learned to protect yourself.

Safeguarding yourself from women isn't optional; it's a necessity and must be done. It should be ingrained in you by default to protect yourself from women. Even if you possess something or lead a life you consider modest, you still need to safeguard yourself from women because your life is in your hands, and you cannot allow any woman to take away your autonomy or power. As a woman gains more power, protecting yourself from women is not a suggestion or a recommendation; it is a necessity. Women are not inherently harmless or trustworthy. Why is it necessary to protect yourself from women? Firstly, women may pretend to like you while secretly envying you. Women can be deceptive; I never fully trust how a woman feels about me by default. I have to let things unfold naturally. I never take at face value what women present to me because I know they can be pretenders. They might not like you—they might envy you and wish to be in your position while congratulating, thanking, or praising you. They will do all these things, but deep down, they feel they deserve to be where you are, and that's the reality.

Women often pretend to like you while secretly feeling envious and resentful. Keeping this in mind, it's important not to immediately trust what women present to you. Instead, allow time to reveal their true character. They might be decent, or they might not, but you won't know right away. You need to let things unfold naturally. Another reason to protect yourself is that women often struggle with rejection. If you choose not to form a bond with a woman, she may take it personally and attempt to damage your reputation. This hostility often arises because women tend to form psychological attachments to others quickly. Women naturally seek connections, which is why, at a party where they know no one, they might look for another woman to connect with. They often struggle with being independent and are always on the lookout for someone to attach themselves to, both physically and mentally. This is why I often have to remind women that they don't know me personally. Despite the emails and DMs, I need to emphasize that we don't have a personal relationship; they don't have my phone number, and we don't socialize together.

They begin to form attachments to women very early on, mentally creating a bond with you even without knowing you. So, when you reject them, they take it personally because, in their mind, there is already a fantasy bond, not a real one, that you were unaware of. When they come near you and face rejection, they internalize it deeply. In their mind, you are friends, even if you've never met. I notice this sometimes in my comment section as well, where I post something, and a woman might ask, "Is this really you or did you make a mistake?" Ma'am, you don't know me well enough to decide the direction of my platform, but in your mind, you've mentally created an imaginary connection.

You believe you have a say in forming bonds with me, but this is where women can become dangerous. They often form mental connections with strangers, including other women they don't know. When a woman naturally distances herself because she doesn't know them, they internalize this as rejection and begin to unravel. This is why it's important to protect yourself from women. Women tend to create mental bonds and rivalries with those they don't know, and because they struggle with rejection, they tether themselves to others instead of standing alone. That's why a woman often won't enter a party until her friend arrives; she'll literally wait at the entrance until her friend gets there because she doesn't want to enter alone. On the other hand, if I attend an event with a girlfriend or an acquaintance and I arrive first, I'm going in. I'm going to make my presence known, enjoy the party, sip champagne, have some shrimp cocktail, smile, and wave. I'll talk to people I'm going to connect with, and when she arrives, I'll go to the front and say, "Hey girl." We'll walk in together, but I won't be waiting in my car for 45 minutes for her to arrive because I can't enter a place on my own. Many women struggle with rejection because they either physically or mentally attach themselves to others.

The third point is that women may approach you to observe and emulate your style or personality. Often, people claim that if a woman is protective of her knowledge, she isn't supportive of other women. The truth is, many women will imitate you and adopt your style without acknowledging your influence. This tendency to replicate without giving credit is why they can't always be trusted. For example, you might teach a woman how to establish a life insurance company, sharing all your expertise with her. She might then use that guidance to start her own company, eventually becoming your competitor, without ever acknowledging that she learned from you. This behavior illustrates why you can't trust them; once they understand your methods, they might turn against you. Therefore, it's crucial to safeguard your skills and knowledge. Many women prefer shortcuts, opting to copy rather than gain knowledge or experience on their own. This is why they often ask questions like, "What book did you read to become who you are?"

I'm not who I am because of books; I'm who I am because I ventured into the real world and got hurt. I became the way I am by getting to know people, gathering information from them, and learning from my experiences. Women often seek a manual, which is why they imitate others, because following a guide or copying is much easier than putting in the effort—it's a form of laziness. Women may try to emulate you, copying your style and behavior, because it's easier than being authentically themselves, or perhaps, who they are isn't as exciting or appealing as you. That's why it's essential to protect yourself from women. They want to attach themselves to you to create a safe space for gathering information.

When a woman has a strong desire to undermine you, she may secretly dislike you, but will ensure you remain unaware of this to maintain proximity. She will make you believe you can trust her by praising and supporting you, doing whatever it takes to convince you she's on your side. You can avoid this trap by reminding yourself that no one is truly on your team except God. Thinking this way prevents others from using emotional manipulation against you. Women aim to create a safe environment for you to share personal information because knowing your personal affairs gives them leverage. That's why women might abruptly share details about themselves without prompting, hoping you'll reciprocate. Often, what they share is likely a fabrication designed to elicit your own stories. Women are keen on discovering your weaknesses, especially those of women they feel threatened by, because knowing your vulnerabilities gives them power over you. That's why I don't share my weaknesses with anyone; they can't help, and those matters are for God and my therapist, not for you.

There's nothing you can do to help me; you're just going to use it against me when the opportunity arises. Protecting yourself from women is essential because they might smile at you while working against you. Women can support you, visit your home, bring gifts, and even buy presents for your newborn, all while secretly undermining your destiny. They may appear friendly and express love, but behind the scenes, they might be casting spells. It's crucial to protect yourself from women; it's not optional, it's necessary. While this may seem harsh, blame your gender. I've accepted this reality and understand why people need to be cautious around women. Knowing the behaviors of women, it's important to keep them in controlled environments to prevent them from acting out of character. When dealing with women, it's vital to set firm boundaries because they might try to overstep or invade your space. For instance, a girl-friend of mine has a business, a woman suggested changes without any knowledge of the industry. She had to tell her, "Ma'am, you're speaking out of turn. You didn't invest in this business, and you don't understand it. She don't allow unsolicited advice in her space. Recommendations are welcome only after establishing a relationship and if they're appropriate."

Women might label you as a mean girl, but the truth is, if you don't stand firm, they might try to undermine you and your business. This is why women may collaborate in the workplace to get you dismissed. Without setting boundaries, women can take control. Women in your family might hinder your pursuit of dreams, education, and progress because they seek dominance. It's crucial to be cautious about how much influence you allow them in your life, as they can begin to challenge you on a spiritual level. This is a recognized truth. Another reason to safeguard yourself from women is that they might hold you back to maintain their comfort in complacency. For instance, if you have a friend who isn't pursuing anything significant, she might discourage you from attending dental school. Your ambition could make her feel inferior, less intelligent, and less of a woman compared to you.

What she's going to do is discourage you from attending dental school. That's why I mentioned that when it comes to women, you need to guard yourself against them, as they can hinder your progress if they haven't evolved. They can definitely prevent your growth. Another reason to be cautious around women is that they might use compliments and praise to manipulate you into trusting them. Women are unmatched when it comes to love bombing, and they often use it as a tactic to manipulate you into investing in them. It's very manipulative how they employ it, and the moment a woman is overdoing it, recognizes what she's attempting. She's trying to make you lower your guard towards her. She'll do this by excessively using compliments to see if she can manipulate you, extract something she desires, or gather information from you. They will wield compliments and praise as a weapon. You'll know they're using it as a weapon because if they don't achieve their goal, they'll shift back to their true feelings about you. They might start insulting you, doxing you, or creating fake accounts about you because their manipulation failed.

Manipulation is not exclusive to men; women manipulate men too. Both genders partake in manipulation. Women might try to manipulate you, and if they don't achieve their goals or their love bombing doesn't work, leading you to keep them at a distance, they might begin to criticize you. At that moment, you might think, "Okay, thanks for that. I anticipated this, which is why I didn't let you in initially, but thank you for revealing your true colors."

Another point is that women often compete for male attention, and they might sleep with your partner to convince themselves they are on the same level as you. This is another reason to be cautious around women, as they often measure their status by the caliber of the man they can attract. So, if you're with a high-status man, she might try to get involved with him, even if that's not her initial intention. She wants to be with him to prove to herself that you and she are on the same level. If she can get the same man as you, if she can get him to sleep with her, then she believes you and her to be the same. Women have an obsession with being alike; they want everyone at the same level. Women desire uniformity—looking the same, behaving the same, liking the same things, and feeling the same emotions. That's why, in a group of women, if there's one confident girl, they might team up to undermine her confidence. Women don't want anyone standing out; they want everyone to be just like them. So, if a woman is obsessed with.

If a woman perceives another woman as being superior to her in some way, she might try to demonstrate that they are equals by getting involved with the other woman's partner.

I just don't believe in it. The next point is that women can be quite sneaky. Because of this, it's hard to trust them. A woman might try to befriend you, visit your shop, and make purchases, all while being the cousin of your enemy. You might not realize it, but your enemy could have sent her to gather information from you by building a connection. That's why you have to be cautious with women.

It's essential to remain stoic when new women enter your environment, especially if you own a store. If you've experienced baby mama drama or ex-husband issues with a new wife who is fixated on you, be cautious with women who try to enter your space, as their intentions may be unclear. Maintain a default, stoic demeanor; don't let your guard down and start socializing too easily.

This situation reminds me of when Tommy and Carly from Love & Hip Hop visited Scrappy's baby mother's workplace. Scrappy's baby mother worked as a bottle girl at a club, and Carly, Jessica Dime, and Tommy went there pretending to have drinks, but they were actually spying on her. She was serving them drinks, thinking they were just regular patrons, being friendly and suggesting they hang out, unaware that these women were there to gather information about her. She isn't even aware that by telling these girls, "Yes, I'm new, you know, I'm new to Miami, let's all hang out," she's making herself vulnerable. I don't operate that way.

when it comes to women, because I don't know your identity, who sent you, or who you might be spying for. I'm not suggesting this is always the situation, nor am I promoting paranoia, but I'm advocating for street smarts in the long run.

Scrappy's child's mother went out with the three of them, unaware that the plan was for Tommy to beat her up. She didn't realize she was having drinks with her child's father's new girlfriend, and it was a setup. Women can be sneaky like this, and it's important to be street smart and not fall for such traps. Take your time to get to know women, especially if you're in a service industry, and avoid sharing personal information with those you don't know well. If you're attractive, women might dislike you instantly. It's common for attractive women to face animosity just because of their looks. Understanding this, especially if you're a beautiful woman, means recognizing that many women might dislike you from the moment you enter a room, and you need to be comfortable with that reality.

The reality is that women often develop hidden obsessions with other women. They make every effort to conceal this, not wanting you to realize that they're fixated on you. They don't want you to know that they're searching for you online, visiting your tags, browsing your Instagram comment section, and clicking on names to find out more. If they can solve a puzzle, women will do their research to figure out everything about you, even if it leads to nothing. They're not going to tell you, "Hey, I'm obsessed with your life behind the scenes." You'll never know, but some of them secretly are.